Saturday, January 9, 2010

Six factors that lead to female frigidity

ha frigidity, lack or cold, also known as sexy, sexual dysfunction or disorder is one common female sexual dysfunction, in different countries and regions, have never experienced sexual pleasure, and very little experience of orgasm differences in the proportion of women large, from 10% to 90%. In most places, more than 25% of women have had or still have the phenomenon of frigidity. Only a few women to achieve orgasm almost every time sexual intercourse, about half of the women are more or less have had not reached orgasm experience. Frigidity mainly female lack of sexual desire, sexual life does not require, for sexual intercourse that indifference, dislike or disgust, anxiety during sexual intercourse, discomfort or pain; some people do not take the initiative to avoid sexual intercourse, but sexual intercourse can not make a the appropriate response, lack of pleasure, or pleasure was not obvious, not satisfied. Some women do not even know what sexual pleasure, sexual pleasure has never experienced the feeling of orgasm. The main factors affecting a woman or sex are:

  1, dirty psychological

Since childhood education properly, by the psychological trauma caused by sexual harassment, religious edification or adult role models and other factors, the formation of the sexual life of prejudice, such as that sexual contact is a dirty dirty, dirty act is a sin, is " Happy men, women suffer, "and thus the lives of sexual aversion, disgust, fear of emotions.

 Second, fear

Due to lack of sexual knowledge, afraid of sexual contact, sexual contact would have fear of pain, or do not understand the psychological differences between men and women, the wedding night the man's action rude impatience, and soon to reach orgasm and ejaculation, the woman failed to experience pleasure, On the contrary also feel discomfort or pain, or even give rise vaginismus. Over time, it will become increasingly indifferent to the sex life.

  Third, fear of pregnancy

Fear of pregnancy, fear, nor a reliable contraceptive measures to suppress the normal sexual satisfaction and lead to frigidity.

 Fourth, environmental factors

Due to poor living conditions, and their families live together, bad effects of room noise, etc., will interfere with the normal sex life, affecting mood, resulting in unpleasant and not focus on difficult to arouse sexual excitement.

  5, emotional factors,

Marital relations is not harmony, mutual mistrust, suspicion or disgust, unable to produce sexual arousal; poor marital relationship, the wife would refuse to have sexual intercourse as a means of retaliation would lead to frigidity.

  6, bad habits

Female smoking, drinking, drug abuse and other bad habits, can reduce sexual interest, leading to frigidity; the woman had a more serious masturbation habits, marriage was not strong enough pleasure during sexual contact, or the man with impotence, premature ejaculation and other sexual dysfunction The woman is not sexual gratification, long-term will inevitably lead to frigidity.

For the women, or sex, from the correction of many aspects. Both husband and wife have to understand the nature of physical and psychological knowledge, master male and female sexual desire and sexual excitement of the different characteristics of human cognitive life of a normal life and development of the significance of the sexual life to abandon prejudices and misunderstandings. At the same time, actively improve marital relations, to eliminate the psychological barriers between husband and wife and all kinds of negative emotions, coordination, rhythm of life, co-ordination and mutual understanding. Impatient man should not rude, step by step to help the woman reach sexual climax

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