Most people are like other people to help themselves massage, massage someone else seems a bit boring. Many people do not want to even try again, because the subconscious they are unable to determine their own pay would be given the same in return. But life should be a virtuous circle, if you like an intimate caress someone else, like your partner should also be given to the touch. Try it, maybe you'll find someone else In fact, massage is also beneficial to themselves and help their extra points. They can enjoy an intimate massage happy time, but do not underestimate the power of dedication to the betting partner. Continued to caress 30 ~ 40 minutes later, they will definitely build up sexual desire, even if at the beginning in fact did not intend to do the same.
Massage is to check the body of sexual partners an excellent opportunity to check a partner in the breast or the scrotum have mass, do you have color changing mole, as well as any no reason to change. If you feel doubt, is called a partner see a doctor.
If you have low libido problems are usually experts will suggest that you return to the basic strokes. Masters and Johnson developed this is called "perceptual focus" technique to help men and women have sexual problems. You should focus, using touch to learn how to get and give pleasure, do not worry about sexual things. The course of treatment by trained therapists, supervision, and contains three different stages. The first phase is to allow the two to learn how to touch each other's body. And then continue to touch each other's genitals, and finally a real to do.
If you and your partner just know, it may be explicitly stated their expectations of massage types. If you have just began to say just want to massage the back, but ignored the partner's hips start with, the person may feel surprise. Massage the beginning, in the palm of your hand rub massage oil or lubricant, until hot and then smear him in the partner. Water-based lubricant is easy to absorb, will become sticky and can be activated with a little water.
Oil-based lubricants and special massage oil is better, but if the massage done, oily eroded the effectiveness of latex condoms. If you want to play the role-play, wear latex gloves pretend to be a doctor, latex gloves, felt very smooth. Essential oils (almond, Peach kernel, grape seed) must be diluted with carrier oils, and some massage oil or oil that contains trace amounts of nuts or other substances can cause allergies. First rub a little oil on the skin to see if would not cause allergic reactions.
Some people do not like oily body, and can not use lotion or something instead of rubbing. Within three months of pregnancy for women not use massage oil. If you suspect that massage oil will cause physical harm, may wish to ask their doctors for advice. Heart problems, serious injuries, eczema or cancer of the people do not accept massage, medication were no good. Do not just eat dinner partner massage, or will cause vomiting.
Remove jewelry, watches, contact lenses, it is best to increase both naked sensual enjoyment, but also cut short nails. Sofa or very soft mattress can not be the average body weight support may also result in excessive pressure on joints. Can be vacated on the floor a rather hard place, so that your partner lying on a blanket or towel on the neck and did not support the site to Dianzhe pillow. Adjust the indoor temperature, covered with the towel before you have to massage the site of a minute; without prior hot shower can increase the body's temperature.
The lights dimmed, candles, burning incense, play can be relaxing music. Can be covered with warm towels partner's eyes, and keep your partner's attention. From start to finish, the two body was going to continue to maintain contact, if the massage, when to leave the partner's body with both hands at the same time, partners will tighten the skin nerve endings.
Partner massage to help when the position will affect the partner's feelings. If a long time kneeling, bending, or standing, brings a strange point of view, the body will be under pressure, make you feel uncomfortable, unable to concentrate on helping couples massage. You can kneel on the partner side, the partner's head on your thighs, your hands over each other's shoulder massage. In the partner side kneeling or lying down or sitting cross-partner's back, you can run into a partner body. Here are 6 kinds of massage methods.
Touch:The palm of your hand flat on the partner's hands slowly wander off the arms and shoulders, and then touching down from the body (front or back of the can), has been massage to the feet, the toes of the local stops. Do not remove your hands to the opposite direction along the same route back, repeat several times, gradually increase the strength.
Rub brush:You can use props to change the feeling of massage, such as brush or cloth. Friction with a soft brush dry skin feeling very comfortable, you can also try silk or fur. If your partner like it, you can use nail Saogua partner's back. Nails too short, then you can use a comb.
Breeze:The palm of your hand on the hip at the top of the spine on both sides, but do not directly suppress the spine. Next, use the palm in the partner's back round draw to advance to the shoulder areas, and then massage into the thorax on both sides, and then back to the top of the buttocks. Repeat several times, gradually increase the applied force. Fingers should be towards a partner in the head.
Kneading:Using fingers, knuckles and hands gently kneading the soft parts of the muscles and fleshy parts. Alternately changing hands rhythmically squeezing. This approach for the shoulder, upper arm, thigh and calf inside and outside. The secret is kneading the muscles under the skin. To avoid the ribs, scapula and physical sides, kneading, where there would be itching feeling.
Scratch:If you feel that itch, scratch feeling very comfortable, some people still feel so excited. From the partner's back and began to scratch and slowly moved to the more sensitive areas, such as the arms and legs inside the top. Some people like to help others grasp head or scratching private parts. You can scratch each other, and lying down, do not distract the attention of the arrested blood (unless your partner specifically requested).
Friction:Or about the height of the former theater, dressed in clothing or other friction naked body. If the mining stance, but did not wear clothes in a companion body oiled, using your body friction each other's thighs, buttocks and chest.
Through massage can solve your problem, common to regularly practice this method, you will feel completely different feeling
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