This is puzzling many men, full of prejudices. In fact, women's vagina is an extremely inclusive organ, which can accommodate a baby's parturition. Sexologists found that women's clitoris is the most sensitive organ, followed by including the size of the labia of the vagina, including the mouth of the vagina nerve receptors concentrated in outer 1 / 3, the more we look inside the distribution of the less, the sensitivity is also smaller.
Thus, sexual pleasure, the penis is not the bigger the better, big part of the penis to make women feel pain the situation is far higher than the normal size of the penis.
The length of time sex
Although the short-term sexual behavior so that both men and women often can not be fully met, but the longer the better sex is not the key is to make the woman sufficient time for passions to launch. If the lack of adequate preparation of the woman began to sex, then sex and then a long time, women's response was also lukewarm, and 10 minutes, 20 minutes or even longer, they can not achieve orgasm; and if in preparation for full sexual excitement relatively high, the majority of women in the sex can be 1.5 to 5 minutes to reach orgasm. In general, the whole sex time 10 ~ 20 minutes so that the majority of men and women are met. Sex for too long, often makes people feel tired, local sensitivity was reduced, or even tired and struggling to cope with. Of course, there a large individual differences.
The importance of female orgasm
Although the female orgasm can be a great pleasure and satisfaction, but not necessary. The vast majority of women, in sexual life is not the first time orgasm, more intense sexual excitement that they would be satisfied, it was "no sexual orgasm sexual satisfaction." At this time, they have sexual organs moist and physical release of tension and moral satisfaction. Many sexologists believe that if women in the sex life of 10 to have 5 to 7 times to achieve orgasm has been quite good.
Women's lack of orgasm There are many reasons: the nature of psycho-physiological still not really "mature", hormone disorders, caressing and sexual skills, as well as her husband ejaculate too fast and so wrong. Of course, there are the above mentioned "no orgasm for sexual gratification." Although many women do not experience orgasm, but their sex life with her husband is satisfied with her husband is satisfied. His wife did not orgasm may not be the responsibility of her husband, but more likely it is that their sex life is not harmonious, such as: the wife is too inward and inhibit their sexual response; husband, his wife did not know what is required, but although she knew, but are unwilling to explicitly stated; his wife, even though it can achieve orgasm, but it does not seem to take some kind of "decent" in position, while she was trying to cover up their own demands, and so on.
Therefore, in order to achieve orgasm, mutual understanding between husband and wife and the full expression is essential.
The affection between husband and wife
The tenderness between husband and wife, in particular love for his wife to her husband, does not mean to have sex. They need affection, including kissing loving, hugging and touching, and even his right to whisper to better understand from the lovers love, care and comfort. As the marriage scientist Srde said: "caress as an art, can lead to a great pleasure, the extent of no way inferior to their own sexual pleasure. In people's aspiration and the pursuit of marriage life, caress should be taken seriously. Some people may be reluctant to accept the Jifengzhouyu like sex, but no one seems willing to accept affection. "So, for lovers express their affection for the signal sent by Do not" on the wrong terminal board the wrong ship, "that lovers eager to gentle and eager to sex.
A harmonious sexual life
Need for a harmonious sexual life by both men and women to reach orgasm? In fact, under normal circumstances, it is difficult both men and women both at the same time for each sex to achieve orgasm. There is information that only 18% of couples in more natural circumstances can simultaneously achieve orgasm. Artificially adjust the arrival time of orgasm is often more harm than good, because it would increase the burden of sexual behavior in the process of thinking, people fear that the arrival time of orgasm can not fulfill our wishes, do everything possible to restrain themselves in advance to reach sexual climax, so to Instead, sexual excitement and sexual performance will be restrained, and even lead to "look forward to neurological disorders" from happening. In fact, a harmonious sex life is not to achieve orgasm by both men and women, while the two sides really need is the maximum care, caring and understanding, and on this basis produces physical and mental pleasure.
Dumb sex
Silent sex life is the lack of emotion, which is common in women, a misunderstanding. Of course, if the sexual life of both the perfect time to carry out and can hear the touching confession, it is better. But doing so often makes men distracted, sexual excitement tend to discourage it. Some foreign sexologist puts it well: when women have two choices, either to listen to each other's love to talk but his erection is not ideal, or preoccupied with the taciturn husband.
Husband and wife chat problem
Problems between husband and wife chat conversation will depend on the attitude and approach. If the conversation becomes an argument, naturally not conducive to problem solving, and seriously affect their intimacy. Both husband and wife communication on sexual issues should be a positive, enthusiastic and sincere attitude to be conducted; measured at the same time talking to talk, if necessary, should be subtle and tactful a number; in conversation, listen each other's views, respect each other's wishes to express their requirements can not be imposed, can not do things the other reluctantly. The love of the sexes is both a request and also a dedication, the two sides should be in sex trade-offs. When you master the principles of these sex between husband and wife chat sex couples can foster emotional problems.
Acts of sexual confusion is from masturbation
For a long time, people think masturbation debilitating mental and lax, and even people suffering from mental illness, as well as other terminal illnesses. Along with the popularization of scientific knowledge, more and more people understand that masturbation is a normal physiological phenomenon. Sexologist said that for young people, masturbation is a sluice, when the sexual excitement of young people when it can relieve them from the "explosion" of rapids for young people to find a way to troubleshoot. While the adults, it can alleviate sexual life due to poor physical and psychological stress brought on the person's sexual system has a good supporting role.
Of sexual activity after menopause
Men and women to the menopause, increased with age, gonadal dysfunction caused by the final stop, enter a new physiological stage, but that does not mean the termination of gender activities. Abroad on 4246 men and women aged 50 to 93 features survey shows that more than 60 years of age and older women older than 70-year-old man, 3 / 4 of people are still sexual activity, 70 men over the age of 3 / 4 of the people could still have sexual interest in women over the age of 70, there is still 1 / 2 of people of interest. Domestic survey also showed that more than half of the elderly have a more normal sexual desire, loss of libido by 12%, accounting for only a few. At the same time, a large number of domestic and foreign research data shows that the elderly insist on regular sex life is conducive to deepening the feelings of older couples, to prevent the sexual organs of premature aging, but also conducive to longevity. Of course, the sexual life of the elderly are not necessarily sex, mutual caressing also enable them to obtain sexual satisfaction, and to get a great physical and mental pleasure
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