Jie Mi: a mysterious attraction between men and women

Turning to the mysterious attraction between men and women, the U.S. Webster University psychologist Monica said: "teaser inherent human nature. Provocative side that can help men and women try to highlight their strengths to attract each other, a you can test both the feeling and, secondly, also increase their attractiveness to catch each other's hearts, so love a chance to pull off. "



"Teaser itself is a kind of pleasure can cause behavior, because people will because they own charm and happy happy. Also, because women have less intrinsic sensitivity than men, so generally the woman, first issue by flirting signals and control the entire provocative action The rhythm, the man is usually in a passive side. "This provocative process is called the" discharge, "" an electric shock-like feeling "," calls the "feeling has been said.



Maybe a lot of women think that beautiful women are mostly full power of a man attractive. In fact, although the appearance to attract the opposite sex although the possession of quite an important position, but there are other ways to enhance their appeal.



Choose a suitable environment for

Bars, cafes, dance halls and other public occasions, is a good occasion to get to know the opposite sex. Inside dim lighting make facial contours look more beautiful, soft music will help create a romantic atmosphere, the music can be very strong attitude to become more open and warm.



Ground "discharge"

Know how to issue a "signal", whether men and women, tend to be more popular. Experiments proved that female-for example, at an hour to issue 35 "mating signal", with an average can be attracted to the four men's attention. However, signals can not be paid attention to uniformity, to keep conversion mode.



Prominent clothing dress

President should apply a powder to make itself more visible in the crowd, men may wish to trim suit, or it's sophistication and clothing, to show their status in society.



The appropriate eye contact

With "Soul Window" Communication is the "discharge" process is extremely important part of maintaining eye contact with the best 12 seconds because the whole body for too long makes people feel uncomfortable, but too short and easy to be ignored. For a warm welcome in the eyes, the most proactive people to live on your eye.



Appropriate dialogue

May try to use a more humorous sentences to open each other's chatterbox. Conversation content can reach their qualifications or simple background, and thus with each other to find common ground, enhance mutual intimacy.



Discharge related to:



First, the "discharge" is a natural instinct

"Teaser itself is a kind of pleasure can cause behavior, because people will because they own charm and happy happy.

Also, because women have less intrinsic sensitivity than men, so generally the woman, first issue by flirting signals and control the rhythm of the whole provocative actions, the man is usually in a passive side. "This provocative process is called the" discharge, "" an electric shock-like feeling "," calls the "feeling has been said.



Second, body language betrayed love and hate

In the "discharge" process, the eye is crucial. "For example, eating in a restaurant and saw a handsome sitting diagonally opposite, I will immediately remove the line of sight, but then I would put on a casually Ceguo Shen son, so that he can clearly be seen by me, Of course, I could easily see him look at his reaction. then I will pay attention to good manners, as far as possible make a lady-like. "" But after observation, if we could find that he was not himself the ideal candidate, Even if the initiative passed, he came to me struck up a conversation, I would not sell it to him, at most, a few polite social intercourse, and then began to look around; again if he play the fool, or even want to sit down and to continue to talk, then I simply count away. "



Third, preference "Yimaoquren"?

Initially men and women to meet, there should be what kind of conditions to be mutually attractive? Monica explains: "provocative first condition is that the other party must be attractive, able to attract him, and he is one of the beautiful appearance of the elements. The objective of beauty Standard is a symmetrical facial features, for men, women, if you have a pair of big eyes, cherry mouth, and nose of moderate size, that is, the United States. of course, is also very important figure. "" For women, a socially status and economic strength of men, will be the most attractive. In appearance, the women particularly like the man who chiseled face. "" In the minds of men or women, often have an ideal object of the composition, when you see can be appears to attract its own people will Qiang Naren appearance, characteristics, with your own puzzles to check, once the match, so they began to pursue the offensive. "No wonder a lot of people love at first sight, they all exclaimed finally found a" Dream Lover " .



4, "discharge" can be traced

In fact, between men and women of the "discharge" is traceable, a psychologist in restaurants, bars and other places, done a long-term observational studies found that teasing between the sexes can be divided into three stages.



The first phase of a wide range of both men and women to "hunt", looking for targets, if seen together their own mind of the opposite sex, a hurried glance at the beginning only, and we will remove the eyes, thought to myself how the issue should be flirting with the signal.



The second phase of the development of the dual-sided, both sides began to actively transmit signals, including facial expressions, gestures and other body language, according to psychologists found that men and women were subject to a special signal to attract each other.



Men commonly used "discharge" signal

Eyes: right look.

Smile: a smile.

Body: paste back straight back straight and sitting or standing, will try to stretch the chest to show his muscles and manhood; smokers would playing with fire, smoke machines or exaggerated gestures.

Dress: dress suit or a brand name, indicating their status.



Women often used a "discharge" signal

Hair: spun, fondle or hair circling.

Eyes: blink glance, stare, staring eyes wide open.

Smiles: smiles bashfully smiled, childlike smile, gentle smile, slightly off mouth Sixiaofeixiao