Friday, December 11, 2009

7 signals suggesting the couple relationship problems

Marital disharmony in the thirty or forty-year-olds to become a very common phenomenon. As time passes unconsciously, the two were first married Qingqingwowo enthusiasm gradually been replaced by apathy and indifference. But does that you really experience the feelings of a crisis out? To make the right judgments, first take a look at your life if the following seven symptoms:

 Will no longer talk sweet talk

As we all know, sweet talk to his wife, together with some of the seasoning ridicule laugh, lost no time in her boast about it, husband and wife relationship is easier to get along.

Spouse spoke in that manner constitutes a harmonious relationship between husband and wife or not, one of the elements. To express a meaning that there are very many ways it depends on how you say. If you no longer have interest in a partner sweet, this is a bad signal.

 Interested in social activities

2 people are too busy to participate in a variety of party or gathering among friends, in order to avoid close contact with the two men. Both at home alone, the old to make television open, are unwilling to talk too much.

 First date, wear the clothes no longer fit

The United States, a study reveals: the relationship between husband and wife in 2500 claimed that disharmony, not happy to be interviewed women in the marriage of 10 years, an average weight gain of 54 pounds per person. The implementation of this researchPsychologicalAnalysis Richard said: "The increase in body weight as part of women, to increase their dominance in the family and a sense of achievement, while other women, so you can protect themselves from unwanted sexual harassment, Of course, their husbands will lose their interest. "

 A photo of two people ashamed to put on the table

Room, there is no photos of you, if any, is casually placed on the debris pile under the bed, covered with dust. At this point, you have to examine their arguments.

 Do you leave quietly waiting for the day

"Sometimes I want to leave him. But I never dared to think about it, because I do not know how others would look at me, I feel embarrassed, had to blame themselves aspire to the impossible, for he did not concentrate." If you always have such a thought , then your marriage is very dangerous.

 Did not want to partner with the degree of long holiday

Vacation together in the resort, is an admirable cause for rejoicing. However, if the holiday choose only a short holiday, it means that mood and partners to stay together for too long, and sometimes this is also a sign of emotional cracks.

  They are no longer quarrel

"This is a sign of the worst," Miss Lee said, "those who have always quarrel than those with low spirits of the young couple but the husband and wife in the stomach is more likely to live together. Bickering at least shows that you have passion, the courage to pursue in good faith exchange. but kind of lazy cold silence is the greatest sign of divorce. The quarrel between husband and wife, there are two: First, feeling outraged Ran, a consumer anger, everything is peaceful; second is faint at this time is turning back, no Kewan Hui.

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