Sometimes, a woman's charm is often more attractive than the beautiful. If we say that beauty like flowers, Huakaihuaxie the end times, then the charm rather being wine, gets better the more intoxicating. You are attractive women? Look at the 10 bar mark.
One, you and affectionate when he began inadvertently the mirror Piedao yourself, you feel very attractive, some of the protruding belly will not affect your mood.
She Quotations: After years of baptism, your body emanation of the full mature style, just as the branches and the ripe fruit. Believe that they will always be the most attractive woman in this world, I believe your husband will always be the most favorite woman, this time, what you can change the beauty of it.
2, when he suggested in another position, you worry about is that this gesture will be more comfortable than it will expose the body's flaws.
She Quotations: You can sense their own weight, the attitude of holding more than 20 years of age, special attention to the eyes of their own men. 30 years old, the more concerned about their own eyes.
3, met many years ago lover, concern about their body completely transferred to the change of his concerns.
She quotation: At one time, you will feel in their body the most good-looking when it came to his first love will make you feel embarrassed, but I do not know from one day onwards, everything seems to become clear sky up, this is not right a betrayal of the past, but you learn to use the heart to treat their own tolerance, you know, and he was just inappropriate, not because their bodies can not attract him. As a result, you will see your change in front of the man, the original, he just made some slight blessing just ordinary middle-aged man.
4, some people think that sunbathing is very embarrassing, but you think it is a pleasure.
She Quotations: valuables lying on the beach, the salty sea breeze brings fresh air, sun drying the body comfortably, such a nice, in your view, is the best reward for their hard work. Accompanied her husband in the very near where children play beach ball, you squint looking at them, the feeling of happiness wrapped herself. The coming and going of people around the eyes, in your mind, then it seems does not exist. Yes, the body is your own happiness is your own, so why care about the eyes of passers-by it.
5, when you look at the mirror when your body is not going to comment on measurements by pressing the standard itself.
She Quotations: a woman's beauty in the beauty contest had been alienated the most powerful, a beautiful, and sometimes gives the impression that a group of figures, and this group of cold figures represent the United States in the end how the United States, we all knew that belly to understand. Zhang Kangkang's novel "Love Gallery" where the protagonist, is a 35-year-old mature woman, writing her beauty, the writer said that her body brilliance. Your measurements might not be the so-called "standard" However, this does not affect the dissemination of like you belong to you with a special light. Learn to appreciate themselves, do not take other people's standards to themselves, This is a mature woman.
6, if a man because of the change curve of your body is not good enough for you, you brave enough to leave him to find another true love you people.
She Quotations: Women bear the responsibility of having children because of birth, a woman's body will be a major change occurs, such as weight gain, such as disease, a man most grateful for, but also some men, but because your body changes, while the You are no longer as before. You may also be crying too painful, but in the end, you have chosen to leave this society, anyone who is not able to go on. Left that does not love you man, this is not your failure, but your progress, because only in this way, you only will be an opportunity to really love you to another person.
7, no towels in case you dare to generously out of the bathroom.
She Quotations: naked out of the bathroom, which in the past, you almost can not imagine things, then you have to care about its a little bit of imperfection to be seen. Now, you can, easily out of the bathroom, her husband in the living room sofa watching you smile, as if still appreciate your self-confident manner, he may still hold the hands of a financial magazine, eyes clear with your body to recover Move to remove, he used to beg his eyes to tell you how much you want to sit beside him, you walked into the cloakroom has chosen to put him up to stop you had to dress. This time you should know it, confident woman, will always be the most attractive woman.
8, the original to buy smaller clothes, you still like to wear it, rather than the anxiety of their own fat.
She quotation: Every woman will have a favorite dress, the man with the favorites, like, can not give up. Bought some clothes and was a sideline, and some are wearing clothes they wore, even if a little is not so fit. It does not matter, it did not really important thing, like others, does not look good match couples, the parties are often happy. Take a look at Jennifer Lopez, Iraq is always wearing a taut little on the 1st of clothes, not the usual group of men to submit to Iraq under the Dan Liuqun So, like what to wear, you wear bar.
9, Party, before that, once decided no longer endlessly changing clothes, the same self-confident you are radiant one.
She Quotations: a woman is always a small piece of clothing, this is a woman who have become the slaves clothes say. Because of their body is not enough self-confidence, women are so a big fuss about the clothes, but even if the body sculpting underwear to wear on the inside, still there is no self-confident woman, because the self-confident charm from the heart. Now you may not have learned all the clothes to wear, but you learn to know themselves in the end what kind of woman, which at the Party on what kind of popping up, getting dressed on the retreat was followed, and had an idea on the selected put on an out, you will no longer worry about the outcome of the. The United States does not each person as long as they have their own style on the list, so why care what other people wear, what he wears.
10, my friends, when talking to a 60-year-old sex scenes, can you imagine that time look, rather than focusing on their own time on the carriage.
She Quotations: Regardless of what the youth was gone, and our hearts still desire love, desire of the body embraced. Moreover, as long as health permits, really could have sex. Of course, not just a blend of the body, there are many other ways. Some people will feel older, think about sex is something that is old does not respect, so think it's historical roots, and we now need not conservative, if there is love, 60-year-old you and him, Who can not have not the same passion moment? Why should we think of their own time, or Fa-Fu, or hoary body
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Married life in an ambush 10
From "Seven Year Itch" to "House of Flying Daggers", marriage is two people's war, between husband and wife the highest intelligence and character of countless biggest contest. Some say it well: "When the wife standing in the kitchen, silently brush the plate, when a man holding a newspaper, facing the TV a daze, a time to time there are bodies everywhere is 'ambush' of war, had been quietly started. "at the press in recent interviews with 20 pairs of couples, they talk about the following stories and life scenes, his tone was calm and vicissitudes of life.
The first one ambush:Gap is a step by step to expand. Between men and women do have a gap, such as women like Roman Logistic grams, men liked to Normandy; women like fashion, men like to wear fashion models. For couples, the fun in life, values, interests, hobbies and so lapse, not only to allow two of the world more colorful, but also just able to meet that "complementary" pattern.
He fears that in addition to these gaps, but can not find a common taste between the two o'clock. Weekend nights you look at your fashion magazine, he waited at the front of the TV soon as shouted: "I ×, how one does not enter!" You called him a madman, he said you know what to enjoy life. Each felt the other tasteless, both sides maintaining a spirit of superiority. As a result, two of the world to the finally turned into you and a magazine, he and a TV.
A fashion-conscious wife and her eyes "soil were dregs," the husband is going to get along very dangerous, if not timely exchange and communication, there is no mutual assistance and adjustment, will one day generates a stream of inexplicable aversion love, then look at where he would not be a pleasure to the eye.
2nd ambush:Emotional life of a lack of color. Some people say that the love between husband and wife after all, was to degenerate, and by the beauty of romantic love evolved into flesh and blood relationship. This is because the marriage than the actual love and lengthy. Thus, under such a real marriage, emotional life in the "tired" state, no more "innovation" has become the root of the BU much rice and firewood in a coarse lines.
The husband is no longer to buy my wife roses, he thought back to a bag of salt and more meaningful. His wife to know when cooking and hold stock, a few months down the gas meter can go a few words; barefoot for two years at home can save a pair of slippers; on the balcony to take the telescope to see a neighbor's television once a month can save electricity; The only thing is she does not mean mouth all day long Laolao verbosity you should not do, you'd better do ... ... to lose emotional replaced is the life of machinery, stereotyped, and cumbersome.
In fact, If men experienced more wind and rain, it will depth; a woman the day for a long time if the home will bring the charm mature woman mature men and mature woman who's charisma, is definitely a beautiful landscape, it is important should be know how to go in the right areas show know how to find new ways to express mutual love and feel, not only because there is a common married life, let it all lost their sense of color.
3rd ambush:"Bedroom matter" has become the unspoken difficulties. Put it on the last one certainly does not mean it is not important. Some may think that: married, sex has become less important. Indeed, family life, we must first think of daily necessities as well as the kids go to school, by their nature do not know which corner to go into just, and this is probably a lot of Chinese women are willing to live with no climax and loyalty reasons. But we must not forget that sex is also a measure of modern life, regardless of how the escape, a harmonious sexual life is bound to affect other aspects of life.
If the marriage is the delivery of the body and soul to each other, then it can be said physical demand for marriage in a most basic needs, the body's happiness is the most fundamental happiness, loss of all of this, marriage, happiness will be compromised. Please do not feel embarrassed for the body's desire to boldly state your feelings and expectations of the state, followed each other in good faith to adjust, so that the body is still a deep fascination with each other, so happy with Time.
Love a person of life to the music; and other loved ones who have a perfect sex, yes to the music in to the music. In the sexual aspect of the right to not give up the pursuit of happiness is not getting us into a mere hedonist, on the contrary, it is only a means to better serve the real-life flavor and services. For the overnight couples relatively speaking, conquer the soul of perhaps the other side of the body from the conquest began.
No. 4 ambush:A hasty marriage, leaving the hidden dangers. "Marriage" from literally seems to be a stunning woman, they find people to end up with. In fact, many couples have proved that our ancestors had the word is not lightly made up, and one was dizzy with love by immediately have to run to the Civil Administration, thinking quickly locked in this person. Can be set on the chain until they find that people are not suitable for them, has become tasteless, but wasteful to discard the tasteless one.
Did not take enough time to try to fully understand each other, did not take enough time to sober thinking about the relationship between the two has become the biggest rush left for the future of marriage risks. Sometimes, the "lightning war" marriage will be love, to some of the false impression of the confused. For example a one-year of marriage the wife asked her husband to accompany him now go to a mall, the husband has always wanted to say no, the wife understand: "You used to go shopping is not quite like it?" Her husband said: "It was not the You Zhuidao Shou! "
In order to please the other side and wronged themselves, I believe that this kind of thing men and women in love do no less. Married, and has been, the fox's tail will naturally be exposed. While others from the hasty marriage is not yet psychologically ready. One has done his father's 25-year-old man's words particularly sad: "Sometimes I can not help but think, I still like a child, I do not yet processed blink of an eye have to pay the other two personal life is like a like a dream, really feel very confused ... ... "
Maybe we do not need, as some people say "love for two years, living together for three years," as for the pre-marriage living together is scheduled for a rigid standard, but only in understanding each other, to be prepared psychologically, and also have a certain degree of foundation in reality, the married life will have a good start.
No. 5 ambush:Too busy, cold the other side. Jin Yong's novel "Snow Fox", when his beautiful wife Southland Miaoren Feng Tian Guinong embrace losing, she Shenqingkuankuan against Tiangui Nong said: "You told me about her husband's name should be reversed before distribution. He would be owned by farmers till the land, you really are people in the Phoenix. "Let Southland say this love language, because some heroes only know to practice all day long Miaoren Feng Miao his sword, his wife it does not really happy, he has never had control. Many men have become the modern version of "Miao Renfeng," while many women probably no exception, "strong woman" Nature is also a busy out.
Perhaps someone will have pity: I am busy, are not they all for this family? Yes, no doubt you are busy motives, but also believe you do in the "busy work", but life is more important thing is that it's process, rather than abandon the current price in exchange for the future. On the other hand, if you really for this family, in the end the family is broken, then the undertaking to the success of what is the point? Each other's concern and care, anytime, anywhere to give the other half of love, a happy married life is the fundamental long-term.
To be sure that the feelings between husband and wife is like gardening, as both sides continue to irrigate and fertilize the intention is not to wilt take care of it. Can be hole-y pilgrimage invincible hand "Miaoren Feng," and finally was unable to retain a beloved woman, can not but say is a great regret.
Chapter 6 ambush:Child became a "third party."
Many people love their children compared to the crystallization. In modern society,
This product is often only appear once, but there is also a time later than before, so when the belated little life has finally opened his eyes, he merely glanced to the parents, that moment affection of human nature in the immediate all burst forth.
Love their children is not wrong in itself, and sometimes as a new mother, wife, due to busy to take care of baby while her husband have been neglected, in fact, is understandable. Only after some time, you can not forget the other half around the same need your love, this love and on a child's love is different, it will be simpler and more tolerant. For example, you buy milk for the baby, while her husband did not forget the way to buy a shirt or a razor, the other side will be very satisfied.
Chapter 7 ambush:Life more and more plain, accustomed to each other's position. There are also plain wrong? No, some say that "it is really not always pan out," Well! But psychologists say, for many years, there are two kinds of inner conflicts that have plagued human beings: on the one hand that people always want the lack of security in this world for plain stable, but the other hand, the flat would mean being bound, this choice is based on the cost of lost interest in life. So, I am afraid that apart from the temple of enlightenment and monks, no one can really put up a long dull life.
More importantly, some couples live together in a long time together, and often used to this plain, gradually over time on the breeding pairs of lovers out of a sense of disregard. Days, numbness in the monotonous repetition, in the eyes are no longer a romantic and passion, even if his wife the night transform eight sets of underwear, her husband would not have any new discovery. While another introverted husband, said: "My wife always thought I was like after work, look at the newspapers, in fact, nothing I could do was to do so, I would also like to go out with her walk, a bustling downtown of."
May be married, and there are more things to face, is no longer possible as every day like crazy when in love, however, a small pleasant surprises enough to create a calm feeling Road, a beautiful lake filled with waves.
Article 8 ambush:Frustrate each other's expectations. It is said that the number of cities, window fan, its inside many kinds of people will be able to find the motivation and reasons for marriage. Regardless of each person to pick up the red text that how different reason, one thing is the same: that is, expectations for the future, for the will to live together in which their own personal expectations.
But life often can not, as we wish, do you expect him to fortune, perhaps he was only taking 2 a day money to buy lottery Zhang; you look forward to his successful career, perhaps he can only after work to explore your leadership employment levels. So, you finally could not resist, and you say: "You see people, and we also married ... ..." severe and perhaps even to one: "I really did marry you blind!"
Think about it from another angle, maybe you are this man is not the best, but it may be the most suitable for you and is a favorite you. He loves you, he'll give you whatever the scope of where the greatest happiness and joy. If for a millionaire or a cause of too proud a man will not give you the same love? God knows.
In the eyes of sociologists, the expected fall is the humor generated by one of the channels. For example do you expect a hen to give birth to an egg, which after the bottom has fallen to a box of soap, people will laugh. When you are disappointed expectations of a loved one, you will have to wear a smile? In fact it contains your smile, his tolerance, understanding and encouragement.
Article 9 ambush:Add up the damage. Some places there will be conflicts, husband and wife day and night relative, of course, not least finally in sight, noisy quarrels are inevitable, not noisy hand, is not normal. However, the quarrel and hurt each other, there is a difference. If the two sides in anger expression is just different points of view, this is a fight; if would also like to look the other way, an insult to human dignity, trampled on what each other's self-esteem, it is hurt.
Quarrel be able to "bedside quarrel foot of the bed and" hurt but it will leave the shadow of the other party may not say it, the heart which it may be difficult to eliminate a lifetime. Do not understand is that many husbands and wives always so gentle on the outside, often close to people at home it actually hurt very deeply. Maybe they think: When I was closest to the people who do not vent? But did not expect each other's feelings is: even my closest people are so hurt me hurt again and again ... ... When the accumulation of one day it will forming a kind of hate, but also a deeper love, hate, the more you cut.
Friends can tolerate your shortcomings, but will never tolerate your shortcomings may be causing harm to him, between husband and wife is also true, really.
Article 10 ambush:"Suspicion spirit" of the flooding. The more we care about things the more it will be tight. Married a long time, into the middle-aged husband to a man "a flower" period, then it sticks, "Flower" will away from home "quietly open?" Anyway, first of all get the point of anti - . For example look up his wallet to see if his cell phone, read his collar and smell the smell, do not even remember the performance evaluation assessment of his bed ... ... be able to find traces of it is another that, anyway, the only way to make the hearts of stone not always be so hung half-empty.
On the film said that what "Shenmeipilao" is concerned, to the husband playing the vaccination is also necessary. The problem is you can not be too hard, every day for a needle one can not stand. Some men may be properly originally, but was pushed off the rails you step by step, the edge, "you can not always trust me? Well, I'll come to a real action, how the?" Do not think that rebellious teens The child will dry, hurry, and so-called "middle age" man as well as "explosion".
A husband's right when he said: "My wife is so smart so attractive a woman, said calmly, even if I am really sorry to her place, I think I may be tempted to confess to her." So, First of all I believe he has locked in the charm of her husband's heart, followed by the maximum extent possible to give him a trust, the last with wisdom changed from passive to active, to his "bad thoughts" nipped in the "embryonic state." This is a smart wife and a confused wife in the face of this matter differences.
The first one ambush:Gap is a step by step to expand. Between men and women do have a gap, such as women like Roman Logistic grams, men liked to Normandy; women like fashion, men like to wear fashion models. For couples, the fun in life, values, interests, hobbies and so lapse, not only to allow two of the world more colorful, but also just able to meet that "complementary" pattern.
He fears that in addition to these gaps, but can not find a common taste between the two o'clock. Weekend nights you look at your fashion magazine, he waited at the front of the TV soon as shouted: "I ×, how one does not enter!" You called him a madman, he said you know what to enjoy life. Each felt the other tasteless, both sides maintaining a spirit of superiority. As a result, two of the world to the finally turned into you and a magazine, he and a TV.
A fashion-conscious wife and her eyes "soil were dregs," the husband is going to get along very dangerous, if not timely exchange and communication, there is no mutual assistance and adjustment, will one day generates a stream of inexplicable aversion love, then look at where he would not be a pleasure to the eye.
2nd ambush:Emotional life of a lack of color. Some people say that the love between husband and wife after all, was to degenerate, and by the beauty of romantic love evolved into flesh and blood relationship. This is because the marriage than the actual love and lengthy. Thus, under such a real marriage, emotional life in the "tired" state, no more "innovation" has become the root of the BU much rice and firewood in a coarse lines.
The husband is no longer to buy my wife roses, he thought back to a bag of salt and more meaningful. His wife to know when cooking and hold stock, a few months down the gas meter can go a few words; barefoot for two years at home can save a pair of slippers; on the balcony to take the telescope to see a neighbor's television once a month can save electricity; The only thing is she does not mean mouth all day long Laolao verbosity you should not do, you'd better do ... ... to lose emotional replaced is the life of machinery, stereotyped, and cumbersome.
In fact, If men experienced more wind and rain, it will depth; a woman the day for a long time if the home will bring the charm mature woman mature men and mature woman who's charisma, is definitely a beautiful landscape, it is important should be know how to go in the right areas show know how to find new ways to express mutual love and feel, not only because there is a common married life, let it all lost their sense of color.
3rd ambush:"Bedroom matter" has become the unspoken difficulties. Put it on the last one certainly does not mean it is not important. Some may think that: married, sex has become less important. Indeed, family life, we must first think of daily necessities as well as the kids go to school, by their nature do not know which corner to go into just, and this is probably a lot of Chinese women are willing to live with no climax and loyalty reasons. But we must not forget that sex is also a measure of modern life, regardless of how the escape, a harmonious sexual life is bound to affect other aspects of life.
If the marriage is the delivery of the body and soul to each other, then it can be said physical demand for marriage in a most basic needs, the body's happiness is the most fundamental happiness, loss of all of this, marriage, happiness will be compromised. Please do not feel embarrassed for the body's desire to boldly state your feelings and expectations of the state, followed each other in good faith to adjust, so that the body is still a deep fascination with each other, so happy with Time.
Love a person of life to the music; and other loved ones who have a perfect sex, yes to the music in to the music. In the sexual aspect of the right to not give up the pursuit of happiness is not getting us into a mere hedonist, on the contrary, it is only a means to better serve the real-life flavor and services. For the overnight couples relatively speaking, conquer the soul of perhaps the other side of the body from the conquest began.
No. 4 ambush:A hasty marriage, leaving the hidden dangers. "Marriage" from literally seems to be a stunning woman, they find people to end up with. In fact, many couples have proved that our ancestors had the word is not lightly made up, and one was dizzy with love by immediately have to run to the Civil Administration, thinking quickly locked in this person. Can be set on the chain until they find that people are not suitable for them, has become tasteless, but wasteful to discard the tasteless one.
Did not take enough time to try to fully understand each other, did not take enough time to sober thinking about the relationship between the two has become the biggest rush left for the future of marriage risks. Sometimes, the "lightning war" marriage will be love, to some of the false impression of the confused. For example a one-year of marriage the wife asked her husband to accompany him now go to a mall, the husband has always wanted to say no, the wife understand: "You used to go shopping is not quite like it?" Her husband said: "It was not the You Zhuidao Shou! "
In order to please the other side and wronged themselves, I believe that this kind of thing men and women in love do no less. Married, and has been, the fox's tail will naturally be exposed. While others from the hasty marriage is not yet psychologically ready. One has done his father's 25-year-old man's words particularly sad: "Sometimes I can not help but think, I still like a child, I do not yet processed blink of an eye have to pay the other two personal life is like a like a dream, really feel very confused ... ... "
Maybe we do not need, as some people say "love for two years, living together for three years," as for the pre-marriage living together is scheduled for a rigid standard, but only in understanding each other, to be prepared psychologically, and also have a certain degree of foundation in reality, the married life will have a good start.
No. 5 ambush:Too busy, cold the other side. Jin Yong's novel "Snow Fox", when his beautiful wife Southland Miaoren Feng Tian Guinong embrace losing, she Shenqingkuankuan against Tiangui Nong said: "You told me about her husband's name should be reversed before distribution. He would be owned by farmers till the land, you really are people in the Phoenix. "Let Southland say this love language, because some heroes only know to practice all day long Miaoren Feng Miao his sword, his wife it does not really happy, he has never had control. Many men have become the modern version of "Miao Renfeng," while many women probably no exception, "strong woman" Nature is also a busy out.
Perhaps someone will have pity: I am busy, are not they all for this family? Yes, no doubt you are busy motives, but also believe you do in the "busy work", but life is more important thing is that it's process, rather than abandon the current price in exchange for the future. On the other hand, if you really for this family, in the end the family is broken, then the undertaking to the success of what is the point? Each other's concern and care, anytime, anywhere to give the other half of love, a happy married life is the fundamental long-term.
To be sure that the feelings between husband and wife is like gardening, as both sides continue to irrigate and fertilize the intention is not to wilt take care of it. Can be hole-y pilgrimage invincible hand "Miaoren Feng," and finally was unable to retain a beloved woman, can not but say is a great regret.
Chapter 6 ambush:Child became a "third party."
Many people love their children compared to the crystallization. In modern society,
This product is often only appear once, but there is also a time later than before, so when the belated little life has finally opened his eyes, he merely glanced to the parents, that moment affection of human nature in the immediate all burst forth.
Love their children is not wrong in itself, and sometimes as a new mother, wife, due to busy to take care of baby while her husband have been neglected, in fact, is understandable. Only after some time, you can not forget the other half around the same need your love, this love and on a child's love is different, it will be simpler and more tolerant. For example, you buy milk for the baby, while her husband did not forget the way to buy a shirt or a razor, the other side will be very satisfied.
Chapter 7 ambush:Life more and more plain, accustomed to each other's position. There are also plain wrong? No, some say that "it is really not always pan out," Well! But psychologists say, for many years, there are two kinds of inner conflicts that have plagued human beings: on the one hand that people always want the lack of security in this world for plain stable, but the other hand, the flat would mean being bound, this choice is based on the cost of lost interest in life. So, I am afraid that apart from the temple of enlightenment and monks, no one can really put up a long dull life.
More importantly, some couples live together in a long time together, and often used to this plain, gradually over time on the breeding pairs of lovers out of a sense of disregard. Days, numbness in the monotonous repetition, in the eyes are no longer a romantic and passion, even if his wife the night transform eight sets of underwear, her husband would not have any new discovery. While another introverted husband, said: "My wife always thought I was like after work, look at the newspapers, in fact, nothing I could do was to do so, I would also like to go out with her walk, a bustling downtown of."
May be married, and there are more things to face, is no longer possible as every day like crazy when in love, however, a small pleasant surprises enough to create a calm feeling Road, a beautiful lake filled with waves.
Article 8 ambush:Frustrate each other's expectations. It is said that the number of cities, window fan, its inside many kinds of people will be able to find the motivation and reasons for marriage. Regardless of each person to pick up the red text that how different reason, one thing is the same: that is, expectations for the future, for the will to live together in which their own personal expectations.
But life often can not, as we wish, do you expect him to fortune, perhaps he was only taking 2 a day money to buy lottery Zhang; you look forward to his successful career, perhaps he can only after work to explore your leadership employment levels. So, you finally could not resist, and you say: "You see people, and we also married ... ..." severe and perhaps even to one: "I really did marry you blind!"
Think about it from another angle, maybe you are this man is not the best, but it may be the most suitable for you and is a favorite you. He loves you, he'll give you whatever the scope of where the greatest happiness and joy. If for a millionaire or a cause of too proud a man will not give you the same love? God knows.
In the eyes of sociologists, the expected fall is the humor generated by one of the channels. For example do you expect a hen to give birth to an egg, which after the bottom has fallen to a box of soap, people will laugh. When you are disappointed expectations of a loved one, you will have to wear a smile? In fact it contains your smile, his tolerance, understanding and encouragement.
Article 9 ambush:Add up the damage. Some places there will be conflicts, husband and wife day and night relative, of course, not least finally in sight, noisy quarrels are inevitable, not noisy hand, is not normal. However, the quarrel and hurt each other, there is a difference. If the two sides in anger expression is just different points of view, this is a fight; if would also like to look the other way, an insult to human dignity, trampled on what each other's self-esteem, it is hurt.
Quarrel be able to "bedside quarrel foot of the bed and" hurt but it will leave the shadow of the other party may not say it, the heart which it may be difficult to eliminate a lifetime. Do not understand is that many husbands and wives always so gentle on the outside, often close to people at home it actually hurt very deeply. Maybe they think: When I was closest to the people who do not vent? But did not expect each other's feelings is: even my closest people are so hurt me hurt again and again ... ... When the accumulation of one day it will forming a kind of hate, but also a deeper love, hate, the more you cut.
Friends can tolerate your shortcomings, but will never tolerate your shortcomings may be causing harm to him, between husband and wife is also true, really.
Article 10 ambush:"Suspicion spirit" of the flooding. The more we care about things the more it will be tight. Married a long time, into the middle-aged husband to a man "a flower" period, then it sticks, "Flower" will away from home "quietly open?" Anyway, first of all get the point of anti - . For example look up his wallet to see if his cell phone, read his collar and smell the smell, do not even remember the performance evaluation assessment of his bed ... ... be able to find traces of it is another that, anyway, the only way to make the hearts of stone not always be so hung half-empty.
On the film said that what "Shenmeipilao" is concerned, to the husband playing the vaccination is also necessary. The problem is you can not be too hard, every day for a needle one can not stand. Some men may be properly originally, but was pushed off the rails you step by step, the edge, "you can not always trust me? Well, I'll come to a real action, how the?" Do not think that rebellious teens The child will dry, hurry, and so-called "middle age" man as well as "explosion".
A husband's right when he said: "My wife is so smart so attractive a woman, said calmly, even if I am really sorry to her place, I think I may be tempted to confess to her." So, First of all I believe he has locked in the charm of her husband's heart, followed by the maximum extent possible to give him a trust, the last with wisdom changed from passive to active, to his "bad thoughts" nipped in the "embryonic state." This is a smart wife and a confused wife in the face of this matter differences.
Monday, February 1, 2010
Vegetable fried up to 53 strokes a more fragrant
1. Hyperchromic Jiamiao water quality a la carte vegetables, the application of water a la carte dishes such Chao Chu, good color quality tender. If the water a la carte, affecting crisp mouth.
2. Cooking salt, if you are clever animals under the oil-frying, it is best put dishes in the former salt, animal fat would reduce the residual amount of organic chlorine to human benefit. If you use peanut oil cooking, must also be put under the salt before cooking, this is because the peanut oil may contain aflatoxin, while the iodide salt, you can remove the harmful substances. In order to make cooking and delicious start to the first few put Xie Yan, vegetables and seasonings and then cooked. If you use soya bean oil, tea oil or vegetable oil, should first put dish, following the salt, thus reducing the loss of nutrients in vegetables.
3. No matter what ratio of sweet and sour sauce sweet and sour dishes of view, just press two copies of sugar, the ratio of 1 part vinegar to deploy, can receive the sweet and sour modest results.
4, Roberts syrup brewed brewed candied vegetables in syrup, each grain of rice dish by adding a large alum, will extend the knot time, and make sugar Isla even longer.
5. Dishes put vinegar in particular about where the needs of vinegar to hot dishes, the clean wok before the vinegar along Guobianlinru, more mellow than the direct topped with a rich flavor.
6. Beer flavoring agent in summer when you do all sorts of cold dishes, plus an appropriate transfer of beer mix, they can put flavor aroma.
7. Wine salad bottle of wine opened up, and if stored for too long, it will become a "vinegar." With the aromatic smell, is used to make salad is very delicious.
8. Salt cleaning vegetables and washing vegetables, the withdrawal of some salt in water for years, so that the vegetables can be cleaned out of the insects.
9. Wash cutting vegetables the loss of anti-nutritional spinach, cabbage and other vegetables first washed, cut, do not chop the wash. Otherwise, nutrients will be lost too.
10. Salt can return to the green vegetables and yellow leaves of vegetables such as spinach leaves, if some (mild) to turn yellow, Cheuk limitation of salt, the color can be from yellow back to green.
11. Milk, soft white cauliflower stir-fry to spend more time, add a spoon of milk, would be more white and tender and delicious finished product.
12. Chilled tomato appropriate salt. Tomato salad with sugar, the salt will put a little sweeter because of the acid salt, tomatoes, sugar ratio change.
13. The new law bladder beans picked fresh crisp morning choice of beans, directly into the right amount of salt in a receptacle Qingrou until moist feeling after the re-entry cylinder (taking care to avoid damage or moth-eaten beans mixed in), from top down tight, compaction, and the withdrawal of a small amount of salt, add the net top-level rock pressure, sealing. This method is the direct use of their own juice pickled beans soaked, non-plus water, to avoid the beans rot in the water change. Into the taste is, color Huang Liang, taste crisp, can be stored for more than a year.
14. Kimchi pickled kimchi addition to mycophenolate be easily spend mildew flower (albuginea). Preferable to 250 grams of dried beans; fry release cool, wrap with gauze into the altar, the first two days out. In this way, you can remove the steel at the end of albuginea, broad beans after processing, or drinks of good food.
15. Mustard pickles to do when you do pickles, plus points, mustard, celery and squid chip crumbs, make pickles color, taste superb.
16. Cut peppers, onions Stab-limit cut peppers and onions, the eyes, tears are often too hot, uncomfortable. If Cook Fang Bingxiang frozen over and then cut, or a kitchen knife in cold water first and then cut Li Jin look can also be placed next to a pot of cold water in the cutting board, knife-edge cutting edge dip, can effectively reduce the dissemination of spicy, so that the eye is not stimulated.
17. Fried spicy peppers by spicy peppers too thick Act, cooking peppers cut will be to fine or small, first oil, salt and instigate cooked, then poured into a fresh eggs, fried into "egg bag pepper Ding" , spicy can be greatly reduced.
18. Ginger Ginger preserved buried in the yellow sand kept moist inside, with the use with the take, and be able to save a long time is not bad.
19. Mustard spicy mustard removal of water and mix thoroughly (thick paste), served in containers, put roast on the stove, or a little steamed about the Long Ti can remove some spicy.
20, maifanite pickles easy to store with the medical stone immersed in water of vegetables, fruits, placed in the shade to extend storage time of 1 times.
21. Tang salty disposition of three methods to do if the soup is too salty, with gauze pack a large number of cooked rice into them, Lang absorb salt, reduce salty. Salty soup can be cut along with a few potato chips the pot boiling, immediately picked up the soup less salty in. Salty soup, bean curd or tomato can put up a few pieces Tongzhu, which reduced the effectiveness of and release them in potatoes with salt.
22. Laver can be greasy soup among soup was too oily, can be placed in a small amount of fire roasted seaweed, and then thrown into the soup can reduce the greasy feel.
23. Dish too salty dishes Viagra handle three methods, and may increase amount of sugar, you can salt solution. Salty food, and put some vinegar, salty would be greatly reduced. Salty food, and soaked with water mixed with wine, there are obvious effects to the salt.
24. Milk-based sauces to talk about cooking, if you put more seasoning sauce, plus a little milk, able to reconcile the taste of food.
25. Wine vinegar can be put more solution can be a number of rice dishes Riga, you can reduce the acidity.
26. The talk of pickles salty spicy pickled side dish, such as salty or too spicy, can be chopped pickles, after immersion in 50% of the wine inside, can dilute the salty or spicy, and tastes even more delicious.
27. In addition to vegetables, bitter taste of radish, bitter gourd and other vegetables with a bitter taste, cut a small amount of salt added a good look, filter out the juice and then burning, bitter taste will be significantly less. Spinach in boiling water and then fried in hot, can go bitter taste and oxalic acid.
28. Frozen "turnip dry" to cut radishes first placed in the refrigerator freezer for some time, a chance to set the sun and dried, it becomes a Jiu-Cun and unique flavor you can: radish dry, roast pork, when placed on a number of taste very good.
29. Remove the smell steamed carrot eating carrot, we should first of its shredding, according to the ratio of 300:1 into the vinegar, and then the pot steaming, would enable the odor disappears.
30. Radish storage pits three methods of fresh radish storage law will drastically slash the items, go to hair root, strictly excluding injury with insects, mechanical injury, tears, and too small radishes. Dig a l m deep, 1 meter square pit road radish roots upward, top down, leaning Pit, according to the order code tight. Yards Qi layer radish, withdrawal of the approximately 10 cm thick layer of pure land, and so alternately Ma Fang, a total of four yards. If the soil pit too, may be appropriate to spray wet. Good yards after the top layer, climate change, according to a gradual thickening of the soil layer, a small casing warm days, to when the strong cold front over the casing, Osamu before and after the casing is completed, soil thickness of 1 meter. Good quality radish, into the pits before without heat, into the pits after the non-freezing, storage of next year's early March. Slurry storage method to cut radish top and roll into a circle of yellow mud, so that a layer of mud Carrot Pineapple Bu junction shell, stacked to the next cool place can be. If the radish heap outside the layer of wet soil in retraining, better.
Storage tank outside the law. Put one in the indoor tanks, which filled with water, the radish stacked around in the cylinder above retraining wet soil can be 15 cm thick.
31. Piluo Bo to the preservation of peeled carrots, the best placed in dry containers, the cover damp cloth, but to save time for no more than 3 hours.
32. Food bag if there is no vegetable cellar storage of Chinese cabbage, winter storage vegetables using non-toxic plastic bag to save, to receive good results. If the indoor temperature is too low, may be the food bag set up from the roots of vegetables, and then tie on a mi. If the temperature is above freezing Si's can be obtained from Chinese cabbage leaves, put on plastic bags, I do not tie, the root stamp down on the ground can be.
33. Suanhuang, leeks bought Suanhuang of fresh, green leek, garlic and other vegetables, eat a moment that can be used to help the Chinese cabbage leaves with a bag strapped to it and put in the shade, not the water, can save a period of time not bad.
34. Frozen onion-off re-fresh of frozen onion on清水中浸泡; can re-fresh onion.
35. Fried onions should put flour, wine, chopped onion dipped in dry flour, fry after the golden color; texture of crisp, delicious and tasty; fried onion, add a little white wine, are more difficult Chaojiao.
36. Processing of taro, taro anti-irritating to the skin peeling skin scraping, the easy to make the hand skin itching, allowing for hands on the fire baked look, or add a few drops of vinegar in the water wash look, you can eliminate itching. Smear 1:00 Fengyoujing also effective.
37. Please copy the water white and fried lotus root, lotus root silk, they tend to turn black if they can add some fresh water while frying side, it will remain white finished.
38. Processing oxidation eggplant eggplant cut, it should be immediately immersed in water, or eggplant will be oxidized to brown.
39. The new Law on the new potatoes, peeled potatoes into the hot water immersion, another into the cold water, it is easy to peel.
40. Potatoes, peeled and the thinner the better potato skin contains rich nutrients; peel should not be thick. Once peeled potatoes should be stored in cold water, again in the water a few drops of vinegar; can white potatoes.
41. Do put milk tasted white potatoes, boiled potatoes, add a little milk, is not only tasty, but also prevents the potato flesh yellow.
42. Burned potatoes with salt and then heating up to burn after the potato, the salt and then heating until discoloration. Otherwise; potatoes will form hardcover, juice and oil mix into the dish fragile, affecting color, flavor.
43. Frozen potatoes, frozen potatoes strange odor removal first immersion into cold water, then add 1 tablespoon vinegar into the boiling water in slowly cooling, re-dish system. Such burning out of potatoes, there is no funny smell.
44. Potatoes, sweet potatoes ring can not be stored together with sweet potatoes. Otherwise, it is not a sweet potato stiff heart, is the potato sprout.
45. Taomi Shui-fat cooking results in easy to use Tao Mishui bubble hair seaweed, dried vegetables is equal to goods, prone to inflation, when the easy cooking rotten.
46. Steamed and then roasted in the kelp Laminaria on the pot to steam in half an hour after the alkali surface rub out again, with water and then soak 2-3 hours cooking, whether cooking soup, are crisp and delicious, and the no sea smell.
47. Cook cook kelp Laminaria Yi rotten law, the appropriate add a little alkali or soda, or Guo Lifang amount of vinegar, it is easy kelp soften; if put trees at the spinach, kelp easily rotten.
48. Bubble-fat fungus boiled rice soup with the France 2 bubble hair fungus, fungus can hypertrophy, soft, taste delicious. Bubble hair with cold water fungus can be so crisp refreshing.
49. Auricularia Auricularia easy cleaning silt wood glue residue and sediment that can be used saline (salt is about in the fungus re-washing, gently rub uniform until the water become muddy, you can with water elutriation.
50. Qiao stains mushrooms in warm water in 1 kg, sugar 25 grams, the washed mushrooms chopped immersion soak 12 hours. Mushroom sugar foam, both to make mushroom fast draft, maintain flavor, and also because mushrooms in the immersion of the sugar, a good burn after the taste even more delicious.
51. Mushrooms poisonous mushrooms feature selection method is the bright color look good, is easily taken back to color, turbidity, such as milk out of the sauce. Non-toxic mushrooms are mostly white, light brown, the old paper color, the sauce out of clear water.
52. Lily of the cooking before the processing of fresh lily (Day Lily) contains colchicine, in the human body is oxidized into oxide colchicine, there are highly toxic. Therefore, scalded with boiling water after the soaking, remove the juice and thoroughly fry before they can eat.
53. Bamboo shoots of the rose-fat dried bamboo shoots on the first inside the wok, add boiling water over 30 minutes, sub-small fire stew boiling, fish out, cut the old roots, washed. And then soaked in Taomi Shui or lime in the stand-by, every other 2-3 days for a time in water, cut into flakes before cooking, eat fresh and delicious
2. Cooking salt, if you are clever animals under the oil-frying, it is best put dishes in the former salt, animal fat would reduce the residual amount of organic chlorine to human benefit. If you use peanut oil cooking, must also be put under the salt before cooking, this is because the peanut oil may contain aflatoxin, while the iodide salt, you can remove the harmful substances. In order to make cooking and delicious start to the first few put Xie Yan, vegetables and seasonings and then cooked. If you use soya bean oil, tea oil or vegetable oil, should first put dish, following the salt, thus reducing the loss of nutrients in vegetables.
3. No matter what ratio of sweet and sour sauce sweet and sour dishes of view, just press two copies of sugar, the ratio of 1 part vinegar to deploy, can receive the sweet and sour modest results.
4, Roberts syrup brewed brewed candied vegetables in syrup, each grain of rice dish by adding a large alum, will extend the knot time, and make sugar Isla even longer.
5. Dishes put vinegar in particular about where the needs of vinegar to hot dishes, the clean wok before the vinegar along Guobianlinru, more mellow than the direct topped with a rich flavor.
6. Beer flavoring agent in summer when you do all sorts of cold dishes, plus an appropriate transfer of beer mix, they can put flavor aroma.
7. Wine salad bottle of wine opened up, and if stored for too long, it will become a "vinegar." With the aromatic smell, is used to make salad is very delicious.
8. Salt cleaning vegetables and washing vegetables, the withdrawal of some salt in water for years, so that the vegetables can be cleaned out of the insects.
9. Wash cutting vegetables the loss of anti-nutritional spinach, cabbage and other vegetables first washed, cut, do not chop the wash. Otherwise, nutrients will be lost too.
10. Salt can return to the green vegetables and yellow leaves of vegetables such as spinach leaves, if some (mild) to turn yellow, Cheuk limitation of salt, the color can be from yellow back to green.
11. Milk, soft white cauliflower stir-fry to spend more time, add a spoon of milk, would be more white and tender and delicious finished product.
12. Chilled tomato appropriate salt. Tomato salad with sugar, the salt will put a little sweeter because of the acid salt, tomatoes, sugar ratio change.
13. The new law bladder beans picked fresh crisp morning choice of beans, directly into the right amount of salt in a receptacle Qingrou until moist feeling after the re-entry cylinder (taking care to avoid damage or moth-eaten beans mixed in), from top down tight, compaction, and the withdrawal of a small amount of salt, add the net top-level rock pressure, sealing. This method is the direct use of their own juice pickled beans soaked, non-plus water, to avoid the beans rot in the water change. Into the taste is, color Huang Liang, taste crisp, can be stored for more than a year.
14. Kimchi pickled kimchi addition to mycophenolate be easily spend mildew flower (albuginea). Preferable to 250 grams of dried beans; fry release cool, wrap with gauze into the altar, the first two days out. In this way, you can remove the steel at the end of albuginea, broad beans after processing, or drinks of good food.
15. Mustard pickles to do when you do pickles, plus points, mustard, celery and squid chip crumbs, make pickles color, taste superb.
16. Cut peppers, onions Stab-limit cut peppers and onions, the eyes, tears are often too hot, uncomfortable. If Cook Fang Bingxiang frozen over and then cut, or a kitchen knife in cold water first and then cut Li Jin look can also be placed next to a pot of cold water in the cutting board, knife-edge cutting edge dip, can effectively reduce the dissemination of spicy, so that the eye is not stimulated.
17. Fried spicy peppers by spicy peppers too thick Act, cooking peppers cut will be to fine or small, first oil, salt and instigate cooked, then poured into a fresh eggs, fried into "egg bag pepper Ding" , spicy can be greatly reduced.
18. Ginger Ginger preserved buried in the yellow sand kept moist inside, with the use with the take, and be able to save a long time is not bad.
19. Mustard spicy mustard removal of water and mix thoroughly (thick paste), served in containers, put roast on the stove, or a little steamed about the Long Ti can remove some spicy.
20, maifanite pickles easy to store with the medical stone immersed in water of vegetables, fruits, placed in the shade to extend storage time of 1 times.
21. Tang salty disposition of three methods to do if the soup is too salty, with gauze pack a large number of cooked rice into them, Lang absorb salt, reduce salty. Salty soup can be cut along with a few potato chips the pot boiling, immediately picked up the soup less salty in. Salty soup, bean curd or tomato can put up a few pieces Tongzhu, which reduced the effectiveness of and release them in potatoes with salt.
22. Laver can be greasy soup among soup was too oily, can be placed in a small amount of fire roasted seaweed, and then thrown into the soup can reduce the greasy feel.
23. Dish too salty dishes Viagra handle three methods, and may increase amount of sugar, you can salt solution. Salty food, and put some vinegar, salty would be greatly reduced. Salty food, and soaked with water mixed with wine, there are obvious effects to the salt.
24. Milk-based sauces to talk about cooking, if you put more seasoning sauce, plus a little milk, able to reconcile the taste of food.
25. Wine vinegar can be put more solution can be a number of rice dishes Riga, you can reduce the acidity.
26. The talk of pickles salty spicy pickled side dish, such as salty or too spicy, can be chopped pickles, after immersion in 50% of the wine inside, can dilute the salty or spicy, and tastes even more delicious.
27. In addition to vegetables, bitter taste of radish, bitter gourd and other vegetables with a bitter taste, cut a small amount of salt added a good look, filter out the juice and then burning, bitter taste will be significantly less. Spinach in boiling water and then fried in hot, can go bitter taste and oxalic acid.
28. Frozen "turnip dry" to cut radishes first placed in the refrigerator freezer for some time, a chance to set the sun and dried, it becomes a Jiu-Cun and unique flavor you can: radish dry, roast pork, when placed on a number of taste very good.
29. Remove the smell steamed carrot eating carrot, we should first of its shredding, according to the ratio of 300:1 into the vinegar, and then the pot steaming, would enable the odor disappears.
30. Radish storage pits three methods of fresh radish storage law will drastically slash the items, go to hair root, strictly excluding injury with insects, mechanical injury, tears, and too small radishes. Dig a l m deep, 1 meter square pit road radish roots upward, top down, leaning Pit, according to the order code tight. Yards Qi layer radish, withdrawal of the approximately 10 cm thick layer of pure land, and so alternately Ma Fang, a total of four yards. If the soil pit too, may be appropriate to spray wet. Good yards after the top layer, climate change, according to a gradual thickening of the soil layer, a small casing warm days, to when the strong cold front over the casing, Osamu before and after the casing is completed, soil thickness of 1 meter. Good quality radish, into the pits before without heat, into the pits after the non-freezing, storage of next year's early March. Slurry storage method to cut radish top and roll into a circle of yellow mud, so that a layer of mud Carrot Pineapple Bu junction shell, stacked to the next cool place can be. If the radish heap outside the layer of wet soil in retraining, better.
Storage tank outside the law. Put one in the indoor tanks, which filled with water, the radish stacked around in the cylinder above retraining wet soil can be 15 cm thick.
31. Piluo Bo to the preservation of peeled carrots, the best placed in dry containers, the cover damp cloth, but to save time for no more than 3 hours.
32. Food bag if there is no vegetable cellar storage of Chinese cabbage, winter storage vegetables using non-toxic plastic bag to save, to receive good results. If the indoor temperature is too low, may be the food bag set up from the roots of vegetables, and then tie on a mi. If the temperature is above freezing Si's can be obtained from Chinese cabbage leaves, put on plastic bags, I do not tie, the root stamp down on the ground can be.
33. Suanhuang, leeks bought Suanhuang of fresh, green leek, garlic and other vegetables, eat a moment that can be used to help the Chinese cabbage leaves with a bag strapped to it and put in the shade, not the water, can save a period of time not bad.
34. Frozen onion-off re-fresh of frozen onion on清水中浸泡; can re-fresh onion.
35. Fried onions should put flour, wine, chopped onion dipped in dry flour, fry after the golden color; texture of crisp, delicious and tasty; fried onion, add a little white wine, are more difficult Chaojiao.
36. Processing of taro, taro anti-irritating to the skin peeling skin scraping, the easy to make the hand skin itching, allowing for hands on the fire baked look, or add a few drops of vinegar in the water wash look, you can eliminate itching. Smear 1:00 Fengyoujing also effective.
37. Please copy the water white and fried lotus root, lotus root silk, they tend to turn black if they can add some fresh water while frying side, it will remain white finished.
38. Processing oxidation eggplant eggplant cut, it should be immediately immersed in water, or eggplant will be oxidized to brown.
39. The new Law on the new potatoes, peeled potatoes into the hot water immersion, another into the cold water, it is easy to peel.
40. Potatoes, peeled and the thinner the better potato skin contains rich nutrients; peel should not be thick. Once peeled potatoes should be stored in cold water, again in the water a few drops of vinegar; can white potatoes.
41. Do put milk tasted white potatoes, boiled potatoes, add a little milk, is not only tasty, but also prevents the potato flesh yellow.
42. Burned potatoes with salt and then heating up to burn after the potato, the salt and then heating until discoloration. Otherwise; potatoes will form hardcover, juice and oil mix into the dish fragile, affecting color, flavor.
43. Frozen potatoes, frozen potatoes strange odor removal first immersion into cold water, then add 1 tablespoon vinegar into the boiling water in slowly cooling, re-dish system. Such burning out of potatoes, there is no funny smell.
44. Potatoes, sweet potatoes ring can not be stored together with sweet potatoes. Otherwise, it is not a sweet potato stiff heart, is the potato sprout.
45. Taomi Shui-fat cooking results in easy to use Tao Mishui bubble hair seaweed, dried vegetables is equal to goods, prone to inflation, when the easy cooking rotten.
46. Steamed and then roasted in the kelp Laminaria on the pot to steam in half an hour after the alkali surface rub out again, with water and then soak 2-3 hours cooking, whether cooking soup, are crisp and delicious, and the no sea smell.
47. Cook cook kelp Laminaria Yi rotten law, the appropriate add a little alkali or soda, or Guo Lifang amount of vinegar, it is easy kelp soften; if put trees at the spinach, kelp easily rotten.
48. Bubble-fat fungus boiled rice soup with the France 2 bubble hair fungus, fungus can hypertrophy, soft, taste delicious. Bubble hair with cold water fungus can be so crisp refreshing.
49. Auricularia Auricularia easy cleaning silt wood glue residue and sediment that can be used saline (salt is about in the fungus re-washing, gently rub uniform until the water become muddy, you can with water elutriation.
50. Qiao stains mushrooms in warm water in 1 kg, sugar 25 grams, the washed mushrooms chopped immersion soak 12 hours. Mushroom sugar foam, both to make mushroom fast draft, maintain flavor, and also because mushrooms in the immersion of the sugar, a good burn after the taste even more delicious.
51. Mushrooms poisonous mushrooms feature selection method is the bright color look good, is easily taken back to color, turbidity, such as milk out of the sauce. Non-toxic mushrooms are mostly white, light brown, the old paper color, the sauce out of clear water.
52. Lily of the cooking before the processing of fresh lily (Day Lily) contains colchicine, in the human body is oxidized into oxide colchicine, there are highly toxic. Therefore, scalded with boiling water after the soaking, remove the juice and thoroughly fry before they can eat.
53. Bamboo shoots of the rose-fat dried bamboo shoots on the first inside the wok, add boiling water over 30 minutes, sub-small fire stew boiling, fish out, cut the old roots, washed. And then soaked in Taomi Shui or lime in the stand-by, every other 2-3 days for a time in water, cut into flakes before cooking, eat fresh and delicious
What are the reasons makes it easier to nightmares?
Person's life that could have nightmares. So, people will be having nightmares, why then? Is there a way to stop those bad things that crept into your dreams do? The following is a nightmare created psychologist revealed six major reasons:
1, anxiety and stress
Life, a traumatic incident is often caused by anxiety and stress. Sometimes, they will make people nightmares and bad dreams. The International Association for the Study Dreams (IASD) study found that a major surgery or illness, the loss of distressed lovers, experienced or witnessed the assault or a major accident can lead to bad dreams and nightmares. Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is caused by the common cause of recurrent nightmares. However, not all nightmares were the triggering causes of trauma. Work or financial anxiety daily stressors, or moving, or divorce, major life changes, but also may lead to a nightmare.
2, spicy food
What time to eat and eat what affects people's night rest. 1, published in the "international spirit of Physiology," Journal of the small-scale studies have shown that, scientists analyzed a group of pre-sleep at night to eat spicy food, health, men's sleep situation, and then letting them do not eat spicy food situation rest, the final comparison of both sleep quality. The volunteers ate spicy food at rest, wake up more often, sleep quality even worse. This shows that spicy foods can increase body temperature, thereby disrupting sleep. It may also be some people say that they are close to sleep and then eat a bad dream causes. Although almost no relevant research, but close to bedtime, when to eat to speed up metabolism and brain activity, may lead to a bad dream or a nightmare.
3, the fat content of food
Although there are no more compelling scientific evidence, but it was found that high-fat foods during the day to eat more, sleep quality deteriorated and the greater the probability of increase in the number. Published in 2007 a "psychological report" on the research shows that eating organic food, people have dreamed of, and eat "junk food" people's dreams are different. The researchers speculated that the high fat food may have a negative impact on the dream, people get a bad dream.
4, alcohol
Alcohol is a sedative people to sleep a short time, but once its role gradually disappear, people would wake up too early. Excessive drinking may also lead to nightmares and bad dreams. Experiences of people who have alcohol often nightmares.
5, drug
Anti-depressants, barbiturates and other sedatives and anesthetics, and drugs have side effects, might make a nightmare. "Psychopharmacology" magazine published a 2008 study, scientists studied the one for anemia and entertainment, Clay efficient anesthetic ketamine and found that compared to placebo, its use has caused For more unpleasant dreams, increased the incidence of bad dreams. In addition, any person to a malaria-endemic countries of travel, after taking anti-malarial drugs mefloquine, will produce some and its associated nightmare.
6, disease
Fever, influenza and other diseases often lead to a nightmare. Diseases such as apnea and sleepiness of sleep disorders will also increase the bad dreams and nightmares incidence.
While the bad dreams and nightmares is considered to be a normal reaction to everyday life, but the International Association for the Study dream suggested that, if they are strong and severity continue, we should consult therapist. The efforts to eliminate the above-mentioned six factors that may make people dream and night away from the nightmare of the best approach
1, anxiety and stress
Life, a traumatic incident is often caused by anxiety and stress. Sometimes, they will make people nightmares and bad dreams. The International Association for the Study Dreams (IASD) study found that a major surgery or illness, the loss of distressed lovers, experienced or witnessed the assault or a major accident can lead to bad dreams and nightmares. Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is caused by the common cause of recurrent nightmares. However, not all nightmares were the triggering causes of trauma. Work or financial anxiety daily stressors, or moving, or divorce, major life changes, but also may lead to a nightmare.
2, spicy food
What time to eat and eat what affects people's night rest. 1, published in the "international spirit of Physiology," Journal of the small-scale studies have shown that, scientists analyzed a group of pre-sleep at night to eat spicy food, health, men's sleep situation, and then letting them do not eat spicy food situation rest, the final comparison of both sleep quality. The volunteers ate spicy food at rest, wake up more often, sleep quality even worse. This shows that spicy foods can increase body temperature, thereby disrupting sleep. It may also be some people say that they are close to sleep and then eat a bad dream causes. Although almost no relevant research, but close to bedtime, when to eat to speed up metabolism and brain activity, may lead to a bad dream or a nightmare.
3, the fat content of food
Although there are no more compelling scientific evidence, but it was found that high-fat foods during the day to eat more, sleep quality deteriorated and the greater the probability of increase in the number. Published in 2007 a "psychological report" on the research shows that eating organic food, people have dreamed of, and eat "junk food" people's dreams are different. The researchers speculated that the high fat food may have a negative impact on the dream, people get a bad dream.
4, alcohol
Alcohol is a sedative people to sleep a short time, but once its role gradually disappear, people would wake up too early. Excessive drinking may also lead to nightmares and bad dreams. Experiences of people who have alcohol often nightmares.
5, drug
Anti-depressants, barbiturates and other sedatives and anesthetics, and drugs have side effects, might make a nightmare. "Psychopharmacology" magazine published a 2008 study, scientists studied the one for anemia and entertainment, Clay efficient anesthetic ketamine and found that compared to placebo, its use has caused For more unpleasant dreams, increased the incidence of bad dreams. In addition, any person to a malaria-endemic countries of travel, after taking anti-malarial drugs mefloquine, will produce some and its associated nightmare.
6, disease
Fever, influenza and other diseases often lead to a nightmare. Diseases such as apnea and sleepiness of sleep disorders will also increase the bad dreams and nightmares incidence.
While the bad dreams and nightmares is considered to be a normal reaction to everyday life, but the International Association for the Study dream suggested that, if they are strong and severity continue, we should consult therapist. The efforts to eliminate the above-mentioned six factors that may make people dream and night away from the nightmare of the best approach
10 health tips to enhance your resistance to cold winter
1, a "point" Khan
Winter health should be appropriate move muscles, sweat out the points, so that the body can be strong. To combine static and dynamic exercise, like jogging for exercise, it should only slightly as the degree of sweating, sweat more discouraged, contrary to the winter yang Terton way.
2, retaining the "point" feet
Health foot or in winter fitness. Persist in using the hot feet of water per day, the best massage and stimulate the feet at the same time points. Persist for more than half an hour walk every day, activities legs. Sooner or later insist on rubbing soles of the feet to promote blood circulation.
3, anti-"dot" disease
Winter weather is cold, easy to induce recurrence or aggravation of chronic diseases, should pay attention to cold warm, especially in cool weather, strong winds to prevent the adverse stimulus on the body to prepare for emergency medicine. Training should also be emphasis on cold, cold and disease resistance to improve the prevention of respiratory disease occurred.
4, adjusted "point" of God
Winters are cold, easy to make people depressed. The best way is to choose some according to their own health, such as jogging, dancing, skating, playing sports, ranging from equal strength, which are to eliminate tedious and boring, nursed back to the spirit of the medicine.
5, as early as "point" of sleep
Tang Dynasty, the famous physician Sun Ssu-said: "The winter morning not go out late at night, offensive, cold-wai." Bed early in order to raise yang, starting no later than by solid sex fluid. Thus, the winter regimen to ensure adequate sleep, it is a good concealed, Yin Jin accumulation; Lidong nursed back to health after living remember to "keep possession."
6, pass the "point" the wind
In winter than in outdoor air pollution levels more serious attention should be paid regularly to open doors and windows for ventilation, to clean air, brain refreshing.
7, more "point" of water
Although the perspiration to reduce urination in winter, but the maintenance of the brain cells of various organs and body still needs moisture nourishment normal operation. Winter in general should be no less than the daily overtime pay from 2000 to 3000 milliliters.
8, drinking "point" tea
Tea contains a variety of the human body needs vitamins and trace elements, especially green tea is also anti-cancer on the human body play a role in good health, long-term rental use computers at work to engage people should drink tea often.
9, drinking "point" Club
Health early morning in winter clothes Rezhou, dinner should diet to Yangwei gas. In particular, glutinous red dates porridge, rice pudding, millet gruel as the most suitable. Can also eat it regularly to support the heart longans Anshen porridge, Yi Jing Yin sesame porridge, porridge radish Xiaoshi phlegm, Yin Gujing of walnut porridge, Spleen Stomach of Poria porridge, the jujube Yiqiyangyin porridge, Runfei Sheng Jin's Tremella porridge, porridge Qinghuo eyesight chrysanthemums, carp intestines and stomach porridge and other reasons.
10, into the "point" added
Winter health to science and tonic. Yang partial virtual people, the election lamb, chicken, dog and so on. Persons qi and blood loss can be used goose, duck, black-bone chicken and so on. Inedible raw, hot people, choose medlar, jujube, walnut meat, black sesame, edible fungus and so on. Complement the medicine must be prescribed by a doctor, one person, one law. When winter tonic, for the stomach have a process of adaptation, the best first choice of beef stew red dates, peanuts add brown sugar, ginger, jujube can also cook some beef broth, to adjust the spleen and stomach function
Winter health should be appropriate move muscles, sweat out the points, so that the body can be strong. To combine static and dynamic exercise, like jogging for exercise, it should only slightly as the degree of sweating, sweat more discouraged, contrary to the winter yang Terton way.
2, retaining the "point" feet
Health foot or in winter fitness. Persist in using the hot feet of water per day, the best massage and stimulate the feet at the same time points. Persist for more than half an hour walk every day, activities legs. Sooner or later insist on rubbing soles of the feet to promote blood circulation.
3, anti-"dot" disease
Winter weather is cold, easy to induce recurrence or aggravation of chronic diseases, should pay attention to cold warm, especially in cool weather, strong winds to prevent the adverse stimulus on the body to prepare for emergency medicine. Training should also be emphasis on cold, cold and disease resistance to improve the prevention of respiratory disease occurred.
4, adjusted "point" of God
Winters are cold, easy to make people depressed. The best way is to choose some according to their own health, such as jogging, dancing, skating, playing sports, ranging from equal strength, which are to eliminate tedious and boring, nursed back to the spirit of the medicine.
5, as early as "point" of sleep
Tang Dynasty, the famous physician Sun Ssu-said: "The winter morning not go out late at night, offensive, cold-wai." Bed early in order to raise yang, starting no later than by solid sex fluid. Thus, the winter regimen to ensure adequate sleep, it is a good concealed, Yin Jin accumulation; Lidong nursed back to health after living remember to "keep possession."
6, pass the "point" the wind
In winter than in outdoor air pollution levels more serious attention should be paid regularly to open doors and windows for ventilation, to clean air, brain refreshing.
7, more "point" of water
Although the perspiration to reduce urination in winter, but the maintenance of the brain cells of various organs and body still needs moisture nourishment normal operation. Winter in general should be no less than the daily overtime pay from 2000 to 3000 milliliters.
8, drinking "point" tea
Tea contains a variety of the human body needs vitamins and trace elements, especially green tea is also anti-cancer on the human body play a role in good health, long-term rental use computers at work to engage people should drink tea often.
9, drinking "point" Club
Health early morning in winter clothes Rezhou, dinner should diet to Yangwei gas. In particular, glutinous red dates porridge, rice pudding, millet gruel as the most suitable. Can also eat it regularly to support the heart longans Anshen porridge, Yi Jing Yin sesame porridge, porridge radish Xiaoshi phlegm, Yin Gujing of walnut porridge, Spleen Stomach of Poria porridge, the jujube Yiqiyangyin porridge, Runfei Sheng Jin's Tremella porridge, porridge Qinghuo eyesight chrysanthemums, carp intestines and stomach porridge and other reasons.
10, into the "point" added
Winter health to science and tonic. Yang partial virtual people, the election lamb, chicken, dog and so on. Persons qi and blood loss can be used goose, duck, black-bone chicken and so on. Inedible raw, hot people, choose medlar, jujube, walnut meat, black sesame, edible fungus and so on. Complement the medicine must be prescribed by a doctor, one person, one law. When winter tonic, for the stomach have a process of adaptation, the best first choice of beef stew red dates, peanuts add brown sugar, ginger, jujube can also cook some beef broth, to adjust the spleen and stomach function
Winter woman's body care and practical magic bullet
Each season, focus on maintenance methods and care are different. Now take a look at how the experts recommended the winter maintenance of the body.
The first body to prevent dry skin
If the sebaceous glands less developed, the skin appeared red and swollen, dry phenomenon, so taking a bath when the water temperature should not be too high, avoid playing too much fat; the same time, I suggest you temporarily do not use soap bath, use shower gel, bath, after taking advantage of Body slightly wet, full of water when the body of a high degree of Chashang thick skin milk. This keeps the dry skin to improve.
Chest and back skin care
Some people have been blocked because the sebaceous glands in the back and chest out Douzi president, this time you will need to use a neutral soap or a liquid bath to a bath, and body scrub once a week, so that it can improve the skin, the blocking phenomenon . The use of neutral cleaning supplies cleaning the skin, you can excrete excess fat, slow down production of acne.
Second, maintenance of breast
Relies mainly on the chest from the breast at the end of an extension to the jaw of this large, similar to cystic triangular bag to maintain the appearance of skin, the muscles known as a natural bra, want to have strong chest, it was necessary to properly care for nursing this piece of skin, Every day you can Chashang Firming body lotion or cream, circular movements with both hands to the bottom from the chest up to gently massage the neck area to keep the chest skin delicate and flexible.
Proposed a simple weight-loss campaign
Arm
Arm fat, hands can be interlaced with each other forward or upward swing, and then draw a big circle next to strengthen the arm curve.
Abdominal
Females with age, very easy to have "general belly", not only affect the appearance, and inconvenience to life. Then you can often lower abdomen, or sit-ups doing the income to help the abdominal muscle contraction.
Hip
Sedentary women in the office, buttocks easy to gain weight, then you need more walking and less sitting, and often do so post-tensioned leg movements to raise the hip, so hip muscles stronger and stronger.
Big leg
Jogging every day, or before the leg lift, side leg lift exercise, or lying down, and down bike that can help the feet muscles strong
The first body to prevent dry skin
If the sebaceous glands less developed, the skin appeared red and swollen, dry phenomenon, so taking a bath when the water temperature should not be too high, avoid playing too much fat; the same time, I suggest you temporarily do not use soap bath, use shower gel, bath, after taking advantage of Body slightly wet, full of water when the body of a high degree of Chashang thick skin milk. This keeps the dry skin to improve.
Chest and back skin care
Some people have been blocked because the sebaceous glands in the back and chest out Douzi president, this time you will need to use a neutral soap or a liquid bath to a bath, and body scrub once a week, so that it can improve the skin, the blocking phenomenon . The use of neutral cleaning supplies cleaning the skin, you can excrete excess fat, slow down production of acne.
Second, maintenance of breast
Relies mainly on the chest from the breast at the end of an extension to the jaw of this large, similar to cystic triangular bag to maintain the appearance of skin, the muscles known as a natural bra, want to have strong chest, it was necessary to properly care for nursing this piece of skin, Every day you can Chashang Firming body lotion or cream, circular movements with both hands to the bottom from the chest up to gently massage the neck area to keep the chest skin delicate and flexible.
Proposed a simple weight-loss campaign
Arm
Arm fat, hands can be interlaced with each other forward or upward swing, and then draw a big circle next to strengthen the arm curve.
Abdominal
Females with age, very easy to have "general belly", not only affect the appearance, and inconvenience to life. Then you can often lower abdomen, or sit-ups doing the income to help the abdominal muscle contraction.
Hip
Sedentary women in the office, buttocks easy to gain weight, then you need more walking and less sitting, and often do so post-tensioned leg movements to raise the hip, so hip muscles stronger and stronger.
Big leg
Jogging every day, or before the leg lift, side leg lift exercise, or lying down, and down bike that can help the feet muscles strong
Easy to make you self-destruct in 12 kinds of psychological traps
I am how could this be?" "How do I always sabotage his own good?" "Why am I still do not get what I want?" The voices of those suffering from all walks of life self-destructive future of people's minds. To prevent or overcome self-destructive behavior, there is a barrier to cross, that is, you must first be able to detect heart to promote your drive to self-defeating. To consider carefully to see if they have not listed below are sufficient to enable the party indulging in self-destructive spiral of 12 can not extricate themselves the most common psychological traps.
1, find lost the character of
Some people's character naturally tend to self-defeating. They repeatedly trapped in the oppressed, was desperate attack, but also frustrated that the eyes are just being there is an escape route, export, they still turn a blind eye and refused to use. Even if the work is competent, they also repeatedly failed.
2, narcissistic,
Self-important, too conceited, too self-depending on the person, usually a door into the walls of self-destruction. Narcissistic, habitual need someone constantly praise, love, the denial is certainly in order to allow each other like their own, often regardless of indiscriminate promised to all the requirements of others.
3, emotional, naive
To childish behavior caused by other people's attention, in the workplace clown to attract the attention of others, and so difficult to get the respect of others is indeed a blow to their business approach.
4, seeking lost cognitive
Lack of confidence, is zoned for limited, and believe that they will fail, I had an erroneous expectations, but their failure to create a mood, the reason Qiyou undefeated?
5, false expectations of
Zhitaicaishu, for their talents and potential can not make sensible estimates of their own ambitious, very unrealistic life goals. Unrealistic wishful thinking, it will only self-defeating.
6, low self-esteem too heavy
A serious inferiority complex in self-esteem cause trouble, and sometimes will make a fantastic move to prove his worth result, they are self-defeating. Inferiority complex psychological make them think they innate or less than the day after disorders, they can not compete with others.
7, revenge-Qiang
Revenge powerful, easy swayed by personal feelings, often full of Yuannu mind, once the acute Huogong heart, often seeking only to vent their emotions and not to listen to persuade, not calmly face of setbacks, the result of loss of popularity, getting into trouble.
8, to seek attention
Like the limelight, only to become the focus of attention of others in order to withstand the hit of the loneliness, depression, anxiety and other bad feelings, but the limelight is often counter-productive way, do not hesitate to leave to others jokes, the reactions of others frown fame or fortune, like the talk, an exhibition of oneself, selfishness look forward to other people's praise.
9, the pursuit of stimulation
Some people love easy road, only to quickly turn the pace of life, confused and disoriented, the only happiness. However, people often ignore the stimulus and pursue the right to judge. The best such a person can learn to control their passion to find fun and will minimize opportunities for self-destruction, so their need to stimulate the paralysis of his Jie Jie, but also live happily.
10, deceive the complex
Some people think that their talents not as good as people imagine, with a total worry that one day the truth will be exposed to guilt deep inside, so in order to find their destruction to punish its own, such as those who do may be in charge of a sudden to make a crazy decided to prove that he did not qualified to be in charge.
11, assertiveness suspicious
Narrow-minded, paranoid all day, always speculate about other people's motives behind the calculations regardless of whether your colleague is bound to reduce the work of energy, affect your relationships, leading to people around the alienation, resentment, and cold-shouldered. The paranoid behavior of a self-played and ultimately predictions come true.
12, mid-life crisis
Felt that mid-life crisis who are not satisfied with the cause of work that there is no immediate challenge is worth Nuliyifu become lifeless, moody, pessimistic, and thus make a self-destructive move
1, find lost the character of
Some people's character naturally tend to self-defeating. They repeatedly trapped in the oppressed, was desperate attack, but also frustrated that the eyes are just being there is an escape route, export, they still turn a blind eye and refused to use. Even if the work is competent, they also repeatedly failed.
2, narcissistic,
Self-important, too conceited, too self-depending on the person, usually a door into the walls of self-destruction. Narcissistic, habitual need someone constantly praise, love, the denial is certainly in order to allow each other like their own, often regardless of indiscriminate promised to all the requirements of others.
3, emotional, naive
To childish behavior caused by other people's attention, in the workplace clown to attract the attention of others, and so difficult to get the respect of others is indeed a blow to their business approach.
4, seeking lost cognitive
Lack of confidence, is zoned for limited, and believe that they will fail, I had an erroneous expectations, but their failure to create a mood, the reason Qiyou undefeated?
5, false expectations of
Zhitaicaishu, for their talents and potential can not make sensible estimates of their own ambitious, very unrealistic life goals. Unrealistic wishful thinking, it will only self-defeating.
6, low self-esteem too heavy
A serious inferiority complex in self-esteem cause trouble, and sometimes will make a fantastic move to prove his worth result, they are self-defeating. Inferiority complex psychological make them think they innate or less than the day after disorders, they can not compete with others.
7, revenge-Qiang
Revenge powerful, easy swayed by personal feelings, often full of Yuannu mind, once the acute Huogong heart, often seeking only to vent their emotions and not to listen to persuade, not calmly face of setbacks, the result of loss of popularity, getting into trouble.
8, to seek attention
Like the limelight, only to become the focus of attention of others in order to withstand the hit of the loneliness, depression, anxiety and other bad feelings, but the limelight is often counter-productive way, do not hesitate to leave to others jokes, the reactions of others frown fame or fortune, like the talk, an exhibition of oneself, selfishness look forward to other people's praise.
9, the pursuit of stimulation
Some people love easy road, only to quickly turn the pace of life, confused and disoriented, the only happiness. However, people often ignore the stimulus and pursue the right to judge. The best such a person can learn to control their passion to find fun and will minimize opportunities for self-destruction, so their need to stimulate the paralysis of his Jie Jie, but also live happily.
10, deceive the complex
Some people think that their talents not as good as people imagine, with a total worry that one day the truth will be exposed to guilt deep inside, so in order to find their destruction to punish its own, such as those who do may be in charge of a sudden to make a crazy decided to prove that he did not qualified to be in charge.
11, assertiveness suspicious
Narrow-minded, paranoid all day, always speculate about other people's motives behind the calculations regardless of whether your colleague is bound to reduce the work of energy, affect your relationships, leading to people around the alienation, resentment, and cold-shouldered. The paranoid behavior of a self-played and ultimately predictions come true.
12, mid-life crisis
Felt that mid-life crisis who are not satisfied with the cause of work that there is no immediate challenge is worth Nuliyifu become lifeless, moody, pessimistic, and thus make a self-destructive move
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